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Community Guidelines

Last updated: June 13, 2026

Starborn Community works because parents show up for each other with honesty and kindness. These guidelines keep it a safe, supportive place. Breaking them may lead to content being removed or an account being suspended.

Be kind

Everyone here is doing their best. Assume good intent, disagree with respect, and never shame or attack another parent. There is no such thing as a stupid question.

Support, don’t diagnose

Share your experience freely, but don’t present medical or professional opinions as established fact. “This worked for us” is welcome; “you must do this” or “your doctor is wrong” is not. This community is peer support, not a substitute for professional care.

Protect children’s privacy

Please don’t share details that could identify a child — full names, schools, addresses, or precise locations. Be thoughtful about photos and identifying stories.

Keep it safe

  • No harassment, hate, threats, or bullying;
  • No sexual content involving minors — ever;
  • No promotion of self-harm or dangerous “cures”;
  • No spam, scams, or aggressive self-promotion.

Reporting

If you see something that breaks these guidelines, please report it (or email hello@starborn.site while reporting tools are rolling out). We review reports and take action to keep the community healthy.

If you’re struggling

Parenting can be overwhelming. If you or someone you love is in distress, please reach out — you are not alone:

  • 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — call or text 988 (US).
  • Postpartum Support International — call or text 1-800-944-4773 (US).
  • Emergency — call 911 (US) if someone is in immediate danger.